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Silk Flowers for a Wedding vs. Fresh: What Are the Pros and Cons?

By Dinnia Means July 28, 2019

The average couple spends $2,379 on wedding flowers. And when flowers are everywhere from bouquets to centerpieces, there is no denying that they’re an important element.

Once your color palette and floral designs have been chosen, you may be left with one major question: should I get real or silk flowers? Well, there’s no better way to decide which option is right for you than to look at the pros and cons of each.

Do you need some help getting started? Then keep reading as we break down the pros and cons of real and silk flowers for a wedding.


Silk Flower Pros

Silk flowers are becoming increasingly popular at weddings. They have many great qualities that can’t be overlooked, which we’ve listed below.

Won’t Die or Wilt

Have you ever gone to a wedding and noticed that the flowers were wilting or even dying? On the flip side, have you noticed flowers that haven’t even bloomed yet?

Real to touch silk flowers are so close to the real thing your guests will never know. These high-end luxury silk flowers are not the cheap plastic flowers at hobby lobby or Michaels.

This is one thing you don’t have to worry about with silk flowers. They are always in full bloom and never die, ensuring that you get a beautiful arrangement.

Silk flowers are always in season so hard to get peonies and ranunculus are available all year.

This also makes it easier to save your wedding flowers since you don’t have to worry about preserving them. Instead, you can take some time to relax after your wedding before deciding how you want to display your flowers.

Easier to Work With

One of the biggest benefits of silk flowers is that they are more convenient than real flowers. You don’t have to keep your bouquets in water or choose a centerpiece with a vase in order to ensure your centerpieces don’t wilt halfway through your wedding. Silk flowers are also lighter and more durable, so you don’t have to worry about them breaking during transport.


You Can Rent Them

If you don’t want to spend thousands on flowers for just one day, you have the option to rent silk flowers. Not only does this save you money, but it also eliminates waste to help you have an eco-friendly wedding.

Silk Flower Cons

Of course, nothing is perfect. The amazing benefits of silk flowers come with the following cons.

Not the Real Deal

Although many silk flowers look amazing, they don’t have the same effect as real flowers. Even using a lotion or sprayer designed to mimic the smell of flowers won’t make them as authentic as fresh flowers.

Can Be More Expensive

Many couples assume that silk flowers are always cheaper than real ones. However, this is only true for flowers that are rare or out of season. It can be more expensive to buy silk versions of common and in-season flowers.

Real Flower Pros

There are a few benefits of having real flowers at your wedding. Below are the reasons some couples are choosing fresh over silk.

Look Authentic

Even the most expensive silk flowers can’t compete to the delicate and romantic feel of fresh flowers. Many guests are also impressed when they discover an arrangement full of real flowers at their table.

Beautiful Smell

Real flowers don’t just look great, they smell great too. This adds a whole new level to your wedding as your guests will be completely engulfed by the look and smell of your special day.

Real Flower Cons

Although real flowers have some amazing benefits, they also have some downsides. Below are a few cons to having real flowers at your wedding.


Flowers equals pollen, and pollen equals allergies! If some of your guests are allergic to your flowers of choice, you may end up with a lot of sneezes and watery eyes.

Can’t Be Made in Advance

Although some brides DIY real flower arrangements, it’s very difficult. It’s best to buy fresh flowers only a day in advance, which means you’ll likely feel stressed as you're putting together centerpieces and bouquets the day before your wedding.

The only other option if you want real flowers is to get everything done by a florist. While you’re sure to get beautiful arrangements, you’ll also have to spend more to hire a professional.

Very Delicate

While the delicate nature of real flowers makes for some beautiful and romantic arrangements, it also means they’re harder to work with. If they’re made too far in advance, you may end up with wilted and dying flowers.

They also have to be transported and handled with care. If someone drops their bouquet or they slide around while being transported, many flowers may be missing petals or starting to wilt.

If you plan to DIY your arrangements, you’ll have to know exactly what you want to do. The more you rearrange real flowers, the weaker they become. So, rearranging just one time too many may cause your flowers to wilt.

Which Option Is Better?

When deciding which option is better for you, it’s important to consider a few things:

  • Are you planning to rent silk flowers or hire a florist?
  • Do you want to save or display your flowers?
  • Is having real flowers important to you?

If you plan to rent, there’s no denying that silk flowers are better. They’re more durable and they won’t die.  They’re also easier to save and display since they’ll look new and beautiful for years to come without having to be preserved.

However, if you can’t shake the idea of having real flowers at your wedding and don’t mind paying for a florist, then fresh flowers may be the better option.

Get Silk Flowers for a Wedding

Have you decided to get silk flowers for a wedding? Then check out our beautiful collections today! We also have Sola wood flowers if you're looking for something unique that will set your wedding apart.

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